However, many Christians can't find their soul mate in church, and many singles are simply too busy to maintain an active social life.
Although dating was necessary and mostly fun, it was also a whole lot of heartache and emotionally exhausting.Being still seems a whole lot like waiting, and I’m not a big fan of waiting.Seriously though, the more I thought about the concept of “being still,” the more I realized it was not about being physically still (). Being still means calming the mind to surrender, to stay open, to not struggle against the flow, to be in the moment, and letting life happen.But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT. Instead of phone calls, there’s the cryptic text message; instead of maturely calling things quit, there’s ghosting (or worse, breaking up via Snapchat); and instead of blind dates, there is a veritable sea of dating apps to navigate. The stories will make you laugh, make you cry, and perhaps inspire your own search for love.